We all have parents, and they are either good or bad. The treatment that
parents give during childhood effect people directly, but when we grow up and
become a father or mother, most of us forget the state of being a child. I am
writing this essay so that can remember that I wished I would have had a
parent who was willing to show love, was easy to communicate, and teach me to
be organizing when I become a mother.
As I said, the way that parents treated kids effects them directly and
deeply, and feel no love is the most one. Statistics point out that a man who
grows up without his patents’ love may become a cruel person. Conversely, a
confident and optimistic person usually has had a childhood filled with love.
I believe that all parents love their kids deeply, but not all the parents
will show their love to them. I would show my love to my children by telling
them “I love you” every day, giving them kisses before they sleep, hugging
them when they are sad. I would do everything that makes them feel safe and
sound.
We all know how important communications is in any kind of relationship, but
how fun is that we think it is not necessary to communicate with kids. When
kids think that there is no body who would understands them, they feel lonely
and do many things to get people’s attention. I believe having daily
conversation with kids improves the relationship. Besides, it is a great time
to encourage and praise then when they did something nice. I can also say
that it is an opportunity to share their lives; some parents never know what
their children are doing because they never talk!
My uncle had told me “being organized is the key to success.” I want my
kids to be successful so I would teach them how to organize their lives. The
easiest way to teach this is to let them have a hobby, and so it must get
done by living. Making a calendar is a good way to teach them how to be
organized. I will do an example for them first, and let them do it by
themselves. To make sure that they are doing fine, I would like to check it
every month.
Because I know how important parents are to their kids, I certainly want to
be a good mother in my future, and I believe I will be a good parent to my
children.
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這也是訂正版 原稿 恩 我丟了
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People killin', people dyin'
Children hurt and you hear them cryin'
Can you practice what you preach
And would you turn the other cheek
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