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作者是摩門前宣教士
他在宣教期間 與五個摩門女傳教士同工
其中有一個女傳教士Smith 長得很美麗,與一位女指導者搭配
後來作者在一個摩門教的研討會再次遇到 Smith
發現Smith 好像自暴自棄地身材走樣到誇張的地步
這對在飲食上律己甚嚴的摩門教徒上,由其是愛美的年輕女子上
極其不尋常, 作者後來才知道,有一次這兩位姊妹去參加摩門
宣教事工,回住處的路上,被歹徒抓起來強暴....
後來這兩位姊妹打電話告知當地摩門傳教總監,總監要她們不要說出去,
所以長老也不知道,也不讓她們跟家人說,被強暴後也沒療傷或是
心理扶導,取而代之的是將她們送到離家更遠的國外去.
每當作者想起這件事,都會讓他對教會的態度覺得寒心與噁心......
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http://exmormon.org/d6/drupal/Two-Mormon-sister-missionaries-raped
Two sister missionaries in my mission were raped
Missionary Experiences
CA girl Jam. 2013
This took place back in the 1990s. I arrived in the mission field with 5
other sisters. One of them, who I'll call Sister Smith, was assigned a
trainer who was just amazingly beautiful. I found out she paid for her
mission by modeling professionally. The two were assigned to a small, coastal
town.
The assignment was a difficult one for Sister Smith, who was new. Her
beautiful companion was very trunky and not much interested in working, in
spite of having some months left in her mission. After a couple of months,
the area they served in was mysteriously closed and all the missionaries
(elders included) were assigned to different areas. Oddly enough, Sister
Smith was put back with her MTC [missionary training center] companion, who
was one of the five sisters on the plane with me. Two newbies serving right
in the town the mission president lived in. Everyone thought this was strange
but we knew the MTC companion was having problems so we figured that was the
reason for it.
Several months later, there was an area conference and the beautiful
missionary had gained a LOT of weight. Everyone was commenting on how she'd
"let herself go." Some of the elders were being particularly snippy. She was
going home next transfer - why wasn't she trying harder to look good? A few
months after that, I was assigned to be with MTC companion. She had been with
Sister Smith right after the mysterious closure of her area and told me what
happened.
Sister Smith and her model comp had been out late at a member's house and
were caught by some guys as they walked back to their apartment. They called
the mission president, who came right down, brought them back to the mission
home and promptly closed the area. I'm not sure if the elders knew exactly
what happened, but the MP did. He encouraged the sisters to not tell anyone
what happened and to finish their missions, so that they wouldn't have to go
home and have everyone know they had been raped and that is why they were
sent home. The sisters, as I recall, were allowed to call home. From what I
remember, they probably could have gone home if they insisted but were
discouraged from leaving. Both decided to stay. Like I said, the one only had
a couple of months left but Sister Smith still had a year to stay in a
foreign country, far from family and help. They were also told not to tell
the other missionaries. By the time I found out what happened, it had been
about 6 months. No safety guidelines were given to the other sisters. No
warnings. I don't know if the two sisters received any counseling, other than
from the MP, a former attorney. MTC comp did tell me that a few other
missionaries heard about what happened and blamed the sisters for staying out
after curfew - God won't protect the rule-breakers, don't you know. Typing
that still makes me want to punch something.
Two post scripts. I lost touch with the model but Sister Smith is a FB friend
of mine and is still a faithful LDS woman, married in the temple, with
several children. Right before I left the mission field, we got a new MP. He
probably wasn't told about the incident, because one of the first things he
did was reopen the area. Or maybe he "prayed about it" and thought
missionaries would be safe there. I honestly can't remember if it was open to
sisters at that time or not, but I'm sure eventually, sisters were sent back
there by some MP who didn't know what happened. Twenty years later, the whole
incident still makes me sick to recall, as you can probably tell by the flat
tone of my writing. Women so naively go on a mission, feeling sure of the
protection of heaven, unaware of the dangers they face, unwarned by those who
they serve.
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