Re: [請益] 共食

[seednet2 (可)]

既然中國同胞一直在情感打轉
一邊說我這樣公筷母匙會歹鬥陣
一邊卻也提不出更好的方法

正好剛在FB有一個我的美國女性捧遊給我三個解答

1.邀請一個非中國人參加 我藉由跟老外解釋規則
順便把公筷母匙講給其他中國人聽

2.把大號的公筷母匙打上標籤 他說他家有標籤機可以幫我弄

3.身為一個老外 他可以很直接說要公筷母匙
所以就算他有得罪人 傷害了民族情感
他都可以有藉口---因為他是老外 所以不懂

另外我想美國正妹可能是在暗示我邀請他參加除夕夜PARTY 是吧?


I lived in Singapore for 4 months, socializing and working with Hong Kong
Chinese, and Main Land Chinese too. I understand you dilemma. But there is an
easy solution, that I have used myself.

 Invite a Non-Chinese to your dinner. And in the begin the dinner explaining
to the Non-Chinese the Polite way to use Chopsticks.
 -Public Chopsticks for serving
 -Private Chopsticks for eating
 This sets the rules for eating, and politely give you a reason to explain to
other Chinese how the rules to eat are at this party

 Another suggestions for eating I have seen at a Singaporean Chinese Wedding
I attend my Host put LARGE CHOPSTICKS for each dish and had a label on the
chopticks that said it was a PUBLIC Chopsticks. I have a lable Machine, and
you can come bring some chopsticks here to label. I can label them for you it
you like.

 This way you are setting the Eating Manners and not shaming your guests.
Plus, depending on the Chinese I do know that they can get offended easily.

 About how I set the rules. I am very DIRECT and make it clear to people I do
not understand all the cultural norms from there culture, and that gives me
the freedom to make mistakes without offeniding people.


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