推 obiter:very well-said 10/20 16:22
Developing a long-time relationship requires
mutual devotion which spends much time. People have
two attitude toward the time-consuming process.
Some regard it as an obstacle in the way to their
personal own dream, so they tend to go after their goals
and devote themselves into what they choose. As for them,
self-fulfillment comes first. They don't want marriage
if such relationship hinders them from carrying out dream.
On the other side, some people view relationship as
one part of their self-achievements and self-satisfaction.
As far as they are concerned, marriage deserves their
time and efforts because they rely on a deep relationship
which bring them great snese of stability and inner support.
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