作者hkcynic (css)
看板EngTalk
標題Re: [Talk] involved
時間Sat Dec 20 03:32:56 2008
Yeah, I feel the same too. But since our friends are adults, they
have the right to live in the way they see fit. Again since they are our
friends, we should have known whether they welcome our advice or not.
If you dare not care about your friends' well-being or mood, perhaps
you have mistaken friends for acquaintance.
※ 引述《alixia (Falis mi jako)》之銘言:
: As we grow older and supposedly wiser, we tried not to get into things
: that are unnecessary for us to get into. Staying away from nasty love
: triangles; keeping our mouth shut when seeing friends stumble. Our top
: priority is making sure we're safe and maybe gossiping over tea about
: how Adrianne should not have flirted with Miles while being very much
: engaged to Jake.
: It seems cruel and selfish. But help is often unwanted and, honestly,
: not required. You'd never know. Thing might be less messed up if we
: stay out of it.
: However, when everything is diminished to a mere conversation item,
: where do love and friendship and warm support stand? I wonder.
--
Once bitten and twice shy
I keep my distance but you still catch my eye
Tell me baby do you recognise me?
Well it's been a year, it doesn't surprise me
--
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