[Mind] win to lose

[zofloya (insanity)]

what's in it for you to win an argument?
people only see what they want to see, and
hear what they want to hear.
often we win an argument only to lose something more valuable,
such as harmony, peace, respect,or even trust.
indeed, we don't need to please everyone,
but under what situation should we put up with shit or rather,swallow it?
That is the question!

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推 kurage306:i kinda agree with ur point, it took me quite some
→ kurage306:time to understand this...
→ kent1021:that is the difference between the westerner & asians
→ kent1021:westerners always stand up for the right, have the
→ kent1021:courage to against the wrong, meanwhile asians always
→ kent1021:don't dare to address their opinion.
→ kent1021:Argue for justice may bring us some loses, but maybe
→ kent1021:it will gain more than we can imagine.
推 tengharold:often we decline arguments only to lose something
→ tengharold:more valuable, like the opportunity to review your
→ tengharold:own perspectives, to understand others' views, or
→ tengharold:even self-respect.
→ tengharold:some arguments must be made, like some wars must be
→ tengharold:fought.
→ zofloya:thanks folks, as i said, the question is, what are
→ zofloya:those some?
推 tengharold:and THAT is the question :)