Re: [心得] 對於翰陞車禍後心得...不喜勿看

[hansoniris (Longman)]

※ 引述《Iamlavender (Impossible is Nothing)》之銘言：
: ※ 引述《justenvoy (我只是愛流浪...)》之銘言：
: :  我也是很喜歡翰陞阿 他好的地方也是說不完 我覺得不好的也一兩個罷了...
: :  每個人總是有不同感覺囉...
:  老實說 你講的感覺 我可以了解
:  就像是補習班主任 每到收錢時 就在那邊喊說 補習費在不漲價 她們都要餓死了
:  現在都是賠錢開班 或是咬緊牙關度小月
:  但就從授課老師單方面所傳出的資訊 多是誰家B字頭車開膩了 準備換啦
:  不然就是怎樣 又花了萬把元之類的
:  中間這兩者矛盾的落差 直可說是鬼打牆般的接都接不上
:  除了幾位家有恆產的"清寒教育工作者"外
:  相信多數的老師都是從一般家庭出身
:  也更相信他們也知道這個社會是一個什麼都漲 唯獨父母薪水不漲的滋味
:  每位老師 賣的都是自己的智慧財產
:  當然 你高興怎麼花真的是他們家關起門來的事
:  只是於學生面前 適不適合提到這種與一般家庭高落差的消費行為
:  則還是請各位清寒的教育工作者稍為衡量一下
:  說者無意聽者有心 叫補習班摸著良心少吸學生一點錢連我自己都覺得這是瘋話
:  所以 只能請對方 多將心比心的想一下
:  對於多少家庭來說 "補習"已經變成一種奢侈的消費
:  誰都枝道你有錢 你高興怎麼花就怎麼花
:  但也不必再別人為了1千元苦惱時 妳再旁邊拿一張白金卡 喊著該怎麼花錢很傷腦筋
:  我覺得 沒有誰絕對都是對的 誰一定就是錯的
:  就是要一種將心比心的感覺而已~
 I think it's one-sided opinion for u to express ur feelings.....
 Maybe you have forgotten what I had told all of you how poor I was cuz my
 parents had a 20 million dollar debt in 1985. And it took me 18 years to
 earn every penny to make my living and pay for the debt..... Since you say
 that this is a society full of expensive goods and everyone's parents can't
 get a promotion in their position and salary, then how come there are so
 many magnificent villa and mansion built in every big city in Taiwan. I
 always tell my students to study hard to make their lives more reliable and
 stable. Most of the time, I tell you guys the truth cuz I don't want to lie
 to you. However, all of my friends and colleagues always persuade me not to
 say so much. I have so many students and I also work 60 hours a week standing
 all day teaching, speaking and editing handouts (49 weeks a year )( for the
 past 10 years ). Should I be poor, or always tell u I am poor?! What you
 said is not fair. YOU can't tell a doctor, lawyer,CEO,accountant to live
 like all citizens and forbid them to show their sense of achievement cuz
 you think that's not considerate for the poor family. ON the contrar, I
 should tell those kids to work hard to make their parents live better life
 because of their achievement. This is the first time for me to express my
 feelings and I deeply hope it can be helpful...by the way, I seldom tell u
 guys about my wife's jewelry or my cars; however, i always tell my students
 to come to me if they are in need..... Thanks anyway, though I am deeply
 sad about your opinion of me.....I think I am not as good and considerate
 as I thought of myself....................

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→ MONICANANA:瘋了瘋了
推 wjw:老師你是我的目標~~~
推 related:恩！老師可能打太快了所以有幾個文法的小錯誤！但還是加油
推 zovi:第一次看文章看那麼仔細   加油阿~老師 你真的很棒
推 tuee:老師加油！別難過！您的教學方針沒有錯！
推 gracewutw79:我還記得老師有次上課說過....一個月薪3萬,和一個月薪
→ gracewutw79:300萬的兩人,月薪3萬的人花了2萬去買東西,和月薪300萬
→ gracewutw79:花2萬去買東西間的差別...誰比較奢侈,一看就出來了吧.
→ gracewutw79:我自己的舅舅是醫生,他的收入跟我的父母(工程師.老師.
→ gracewutw79:)比起來還是差了一大截...他們家兩台車,我家也兩台...
→ gracewutw79:因為收入的不同,他開的都是BMW的....而我們家的都是
→ gracewutw79:TOYOTA的....每個人所能負擔的能力本來就不同...不是
→ gracewutw79:本就該量力為出嗎?!只要他是用正當的管道賺來的,該怎
→ gracewutw79:麼花,只要他本人高興.願意就好.我們?啥去干涉呢?
→ gracewutw79:跟你們的年紀比起來,我還小(才高一)...我只是就我的想
→ gracewutw79:法發表一下....不用太在意我的看法啦....
→ gracewutw79:與其現在聽到別人多有錢多有錢,我們不是更應該把焦點
→ gracewutw79:放在老師說的"好好認真唸書"上嗎??事實是選擇的結果
→ gracewutw79:如果你希望你將來可以過的比別人好,還是乖乖聽老師的
→ gracewutw79:聽老師的話快唸書吧....(不過我自認我並沒有很認真...
→ gracewutw79:)[歹事...]
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