[情報] 11/20 The Daily Horoscope

[sujaya (獨角獸貓貓)]

Thursday Nov 20

It is one thing to be someone's shoulder to cry on, or their source of
support. It is another thing entirely to offer unwanted and/or unasked-for
advice when you think you know better than the other person. You may have
strong opinions about what someone you care about is doing with their life.
That's your right.
However, Pisces, you don't have a right to impose those beliefs on someone
else. You can make it clear that you are available for feedback if it's wanted,
but don't be overly aggressive about it. If you're subtle, you stand a better
chance of being asked.

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    給一個人肩膀讓他靠著哭或著做他支持的來源是一件事；但當你認為你比對方知道的
更好，而提供不想和(或)未被要求的建議卻又是完全不同的事了。也許你對某個你所關心
的人的生活要如有著很強烈的看法。這是你的權利。
    然而，魚魚你並沒有權利可以把這樣的信念強加給別人。你可以講清楚說如果對方想
要你可以給對方有用的回饋，但別過於咄咄逼人。如果你輕巧一些，那你更有可能機會被
對方尋求意見。
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推 kawsxkaws: 推！！
推 TCFmars: 嗯嗯...沒錯...說的好
→ papasu: 其實看不太懂
推 lightpisces: 意思就是符合他人所需要的幫助才是真體貼
→ lightpisces: 即便你的看法真的比較好 但如果要人家接受你或尋求你
→ lightpisces: 的協助時 要先試著傾聽、用點技巧性或溫柔的方式讓人
→ lightpisces: 覺得不那麼強硬與壓迫