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2002/2/11 ꔛ出刊 報長：小草
《愛情》有時愛就是不足夠
Sometimes love just ain't enough
在孫燕姿最新的一張專輯中，我最喜歡的就是這首歌，〝Sometimes love just ain't
enough〞，有時愛就是不足夠。
有時候，我們認為我們懂得什麼是愛，有時候，我們卻又十分迷惑。
因為困惑........
我們試著在愛情電影中、愛情小說中，以及所有談論愛情的事物中，去找出愛情
的真實面貌，去找出一個自己賴以生存的愛情法則。卻不懂得每個人的愛情看似相
同，卻總有著或多或少的差異，拿著別人的標準去評論自己的愛情，是相當不智的行
為，因為妳所愛的那個人，是獨一無二的，無法複製。
我們或許可以做到一百件能讓愛情美好的事，但就一定能讓我們的愛情完美無缺
嗎？愛情中充滿了太多的可能性，每一面都可能真實或虛假。
這麼一說，彷彿更加迷惑了，有時候，用心去愛著一個人，我們不一定會得到我
們想要的結果，那並不代表我們就被愛情放逐了。
背後的原因有很多，可能是我們找了並不適合的人，可能是我們還不夠成熟，也
可能就像這首歌說的，有時候愛就是不足夠，就像不同的物種對生存的要求不同，有
些動物需要陽光才能活得好，而有些動物卻不需要，因此對於不同的人而言，愛情所
代表的價值就不相同，我們要的愛情面貌都不相同，不是嗎？
所以，我們的愛情還是得靠我們的智慧與信心去維持，用智慧去判斷該不該繼
續？用信心去讓愛情融入妳的生活，發現幸福。
當我們看見一段愛情讓妳感動時，我們不該只想複製片段，而是該想想是什麼讓
妳覺得感動？是什麼觸動了妳的心靈？
幸福與感動的面貌多樣，但追溯其源頭，卻十分相似。
《Sometimes love just ain't enough》
Written:Patty Smyth/Glen Burtnik Vocal:Patty Smyth/Don Henley
I don't wanna lose you, I don't wanna use you
just to have sombody by my side
And I don't wanna hate you I don't wanna take you
But I don't wanna be the one to cry
That don't really matter to anyone, anymore
But like a fool I keep losing my place
And I keep seeing you walk through that door
But there's a danger in loving somebody too much
And its sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough
Now I could never change you
I don't wanna blame you
Baby you don't have to take the fall
Yes I may have hurt you
But I did not desert you
Maybe I just want to have it all
It makes a sound like thunder
It makes me feel like rain
And like a fool who will never see the truth
I keep thinking something's gonna change
But there's a danger in loving somebody too much
And its sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough
And there's no way home
when it's late at night and you're all alone
Are there things that you wanted to say
Do you feel me beside you in your bed
there beside you where I used to lay
And there's a Danger in Loving somebody too much
And it's sad when you know it's your heart they can't touch
There's a reason why people don't stay who they are
Cause baby sometimes love just ain't enough
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough
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