推 hkcynic:well, it's easier said than done 11/16 21:39
In my opinion, All you have to do is that drink some beer and cry a night.
After that, you start a life. That is all, do not think too much.
Don't try to forgot her that is mission impossible. You can't delete
three years memories without you remove a part of you brain.
It is a good idea, you can put youseld in busy but it only have short term
benefit. When you go back to house along, you may feel more sad and pain.
I can tell you a tip for ovecome this situation. The best way is that
you should learn to enjor the pain. try to think about why you will feel
so sad and to find the root of the problem. For instance, Did you feel that
you did something wrong or you say something bad word.
Some friend told me that he felt sad becasue he thought that
he can do better if she comes back. OK.
I have to tell you a cruel turth. Your exgrilfriend left you and never
go back again. So, congratulation. you have a chance to make a choose
for you future. The first, you can keeping sad and sad....and sad...
The second, you have a big cry and a lot of beer than have a new life.
Now is you time, you have to make a decision.
※ 引述《dboy1980 (戰龍在野)》之銘言：
: I have the same question with you. I just broke up with my girl friend.
: We have been together 3 years, there are many memory about our love.
: I don't think that I can forget it.
: But I tought myself that I can't have any contact with her, MSN or phone.
: Because that will recall my sweat memory, and I will feel very sad.
: Try to make yourself busy, don't let you stay at home alone.
: This is what I am trying to do.
: P.S. I just broke up with my girl frinend the day before yesterday.
: So, I think I can totally understand what you feel right now.
: Let's cheer up and find another love.
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