Some advise?

[kathrym (我)]

ok.. so this is the story
my friend's bday is coming
I'm preparing a hot pot party for her to celebrate her birthday in her apartment
but apparently she doesnt want to invite anyone
since low-keyed, she isnt good with anyone
its like i really dont know who to invite to the party
when i asked for her opinion, it seemed like she doesnt want to celebrate her bday with someone she is not really really good with
she doesnt want me to invite some "friends" but not really "close" friends (?)
so on this day we were discussing who to invite again
finally, she told me to start the party in my own apartment without her
to keep the party but abandon her, the bday girl
so that i dont need to ask for her opinion, just invite anyone i want
wth???????
its not my own party ok??
its not like ppl gather only becuz we want a hot pot party
and its not like i want this party, i want to mess around
i rather sleep and relax
i already went to buy the food.. we have everything now
only waiting for her bday to come
but i'm really mad now
crazy..
cuz her attitude really bothers me
and i dont want to prepare this party for her anymore
BUT I ALREADY BOUGHT THE FOODSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
should i eat them myself?
i love hot pot anyway....

i'm doing this for her is becuz she has prepared several bday parties for me in the past few years
and i thought i should do the same

i didnt do it last year becuz her attitude made me mad, tho i forgot what she did

Omg i should've given her some attitude when she's preparing parties for me

Is there really ppl out there always give bad attitude in the situation like this?
or there's a problem between us
should i cancel the bday party for god's sake?
or keep it.. maybe she'll be happy to see ppl gather for her bday?

mm.. thx for reading it this far
just want to find a place to express my feeling
dont give ur friend attitude ok?

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作者: kathrym (我) 看板: EngTalk
標題: Re: Some advise?
時間: Mon Jan  1 05:34:51 2007

※ 引述《kathrym (我)》之銘言：
: ok.. so this is the story
: my friend's bday is coming
: I'm preparing a hot pot party for her to celebrate her birthday in her apartment
: but apparently she doesnt want to invite anyone
: since low-keyed, she isnt good with anyone
: its like i really dont know who to invite to the party
: when i asked for her opinion, it seemed like she doesnt want to celebrate her bday with someone she is not really really good with
: she doesnt want me to invite some "friends" but not really "close" friends (?)
: so on this day we were discussing who to invite again
: finally, she told me to start the party in my own apartment without her
: to keep the party but abandon her, the bday girl
: so that i dont need to ask for her opinion, just invite anyone i want
: wth???????
: its not my own party ok??
: its not like ppl gather only becuz we want a hot pot party
: and its not like i want this party, i want to mess around
: i rather sleep and relax
: i already went to buy the food.. we have everything now
: only waiting for her bday to come
: but i'm really mad now
: crazy..
: cuz her attitude really bothers me



I think I over reacted a little bit
after thinking it for a while
I realize she just wants a quiet bday
with or without some close friends
She's pretty lazy too
She doesnt want to think about who to invite or anything..?
Not purposely opposing me..?
cuz i felt like she was just opposing my idea without any real reason..
blah..
so confusing
i know she feels happy when only a few friends gather around..mm.. tho she's sometimes weird and self willed..
anyway.. i'll stop here.. too much bs
thx for reading it.. i know it hurts ur eyes when  reading some poor english

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