推 ryen:I like this positive sentence "just do it!" 11/15 05:37
※ 引述《adamlee21 (ThyGaynessShalBePunishd)》之銘言：
: If you really like someone, how long can you wait for
: his/her response?...
: I was talking to my friend about this issue last night,
: and we came to this conclusion:
: 3 months (i.e. a season)
: yet,
: Poeple don't have too many 3-months in their lives
: to wait/waste for uncertainties, but this is perhaps a way
: to test themselves on how much they really like their
: liked ones...
I beg to differ, i think to make someone wait for the purpose of testing
is so unfair, and may have some adverse effect.
Actually, Being rational is a good choice in most cases, but if it is the case
you are deciding whether seeing someone or not, maybe the impulsive decision
just can work things out. I think the only fact is that we take our mate
seriously, she(he) may be the Mrs.(Mr.)right, but if we always try to test
them, then, no one can be the right one.
Therefore, my suggestion is "Just do it" and "treat her(him) well".
: Anyway, soon after we finished the chat, I paradoxically
: wrote this on my msn id:
: "There's a reason why I'm willing to wait forever for you"
: Why? Well...
: I "love" her and that's why
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