※ 引述《ohnomygod (renew)》之銘言：
: i've quited the last job in Taichung ,
: and i come back to my hometown (chai-yi)
: now i work in Chai-Yi ,but i really couldn't adapt the environment
: i always tell myself i need to get used but it's really hard to accept
: i feel so lonely and my coworkers all are very cold
: i'm not happy and i don't know what should i do ?
: if my life could be again ,i think i shouldn't so impluse
: lots of things ,once happen it won't come back
: try to overcome myself but it's the most difficult
: could anyone give me some suggestion?
i dont have that guts to give u advise or suggestion or something,
but sharing some thought is within my compass.
i wonder which part of ur life nearly ruined u and make
u so unhappy.is it the matter of salary?the relationship with colleagues?
or maybe the romance with ur girlfriend/boyfriend ?
from the message u shared with us,allow me to reckon that the most bothering
thing from ur view might be the co-workers problem because u told us
that u r very lonely but ur colleagues are damn cold and grim!
sadly,almost everyone in this society is cold toward other.
u may find someone not that cold in church,but i daresay
that it is just a camouflage,just a fog which has hided their truly face
of their mind,though not everone .
try find a friend that is willing to be with u or at least chat with u,
face to face or using msn is ok.
u need a friend,i daresay.
if a person dont feel lonely when being alone,friend might not be necessary,
but in most people's case,just like u and me and others,
we DO need a friend,a buddy,a pal,a folks that will always by our side,
although he may not speak softly but lie,the true is the only language
for him,but he will support u all the time even if there is a lot of
disrupting formidable odds and problems and trouble and...whatever.
anyway,get a friend as soon as possible and,if u dont mind,
i will be glad to be ur friend(shy),although i live in hitdog(打狗),
but we can contact to each other by bbs(ex:ptt),or mail,msn,etc.
hope u get happier soon.
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