[分享] Something about love... by Jiro Goh

[wonR ()]

哈哈 上個月參加完Jiro妖精聲林講座之後喜憨的狀態到現在還沒退

而且我很快就忝不知恥的加了妖精大人的FB (室友大人:我最喜歡你忝不知恥這點了~♥)

然後看妖精大人寫的東西津津有味 這篇我看了很有感覺 想分享給大家

原出處是http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=393345328710

我有問可不可以轉 他說可以 耶耶耶~~

然後忝不知恥的加了一下中文 以上

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Something about Love...
by Jiro Goh on Thursday, October 28, 2010 at 5:08pm

Dearest Friends...
摯友們…

A friend asked about Love...and so I replied as 1st person perspective...
一位朋友問到了所謂愛…而我以第一人稱的視角來回答

Imagine wanting to find out why I feel sad or angry or frustration...
what is it in relationship that I am looking for...
what am I missing in my life?
What am I afraid of?
and most importantly...
How can I stop experiencing pain in my life
How can I stop repeating all the same old patterns
same old sad ending story...
how can i start creating a new life?
試著去想像，去找到為何我感到傷心、憤怒或是挫折
在一段關係中我所尋找的是什麼
在我的生命中我所思念的是什麼
我害怕的是什麼
並且，最重要的…
如何在我的生命中停止經驗痛苦
如何停止重複那些相同的舊有模式
相同的悲傷完結
我要如何開始創造新的人生？

humans are afraid of intimacy
Many people wears a mask
and pretend to be nice
人們害怕親密的關係
很多人帶著面具
並且假裝友善

When we come too close
it means, we need to let go of our mask
and be naked to show our true-self
We need to trust the other person
and more importantly, we need to learn to trust ourselves to show others our
shameful side...
當我們太過靠近
那意味著我們必須脫掉自身的面具
赤裸並暴露出真實的自我
我們必須信任他人
更重要的是，我們必須學著信任並顯現出自己羞恥的一面

And if we are not ready to show true-self...we create barriers
We stop coming closer because the other person maybe a threat...
a threat to our feelings
而倘若我們還沒準備好去顯露真實的自己….我們便製造阻隔
我們停止更加靠近，因為他人將可能成為威脅…
情感上的威脅

Wondering whether you will accept me for WHO I AM
instead of expecting me to be someone else that you want me to be
想知道你是否會因為”我是誰”接受我
而不是因為期望我成為你所想要的那個人

If I can trust you
I will come closer and show you my everything...
that is if i have no fear
no fear of intimacy
no fear of love
如果我能信任你
我會更靠近你，並對你展現我所有的一切
也就是說，我沒有恐懼
沒有對親密的恐懼
沒有對愛的恐懼

If I want to have a beautiful love life, I need to start changing my
emotional attitude, the way I feel about love
如果我希望有美麗的生命之愛/愛情生活，我必須開始改變對情感的態度、感受愛的方式

I need to let go of my fears and be free
and not be afraid to be rejected, because i hold no expectation...
我必須放手讓恐懼離開，讓自己自由
不害怕被拒絕，因為我並不預設任何結果

I do not need love from outside, I have great love inside...its all to give
only the love to myself last forever
我不需要從外在獲得愛，我自身就擁有無盡的愛….等著給予出去
只有對自我的愛能持續到永恆

All external love are temporary
just like cycles of the sun and moon
no one can promise forever
所有外在的愛都是短暫的
像是太陽與月亮的週期
沒有人可以承諾永遠

...and if someone promise you...
That promise only lasts in the moment of now...and each moment is new
Love is freedom.......not empty promises, not bind by law or marriage
Love gives freely, never expects anything in return
People have forgotten about their inner love, the innocent love they have
infinitely when they are little children
The pure love towards everyone
…若是有人承諾了你
那個承諾只持續在當下的那刻…而每個當下都是新的
愛是自由……不是空泛的承諾、不受法律或婚姻的拘束
愛是自由的給予，從不期待任何的回報
人們已經忘記在內在所擁有的愛，小時候所擁有的那無窮純真的愛
純淨並對每個人開放的愛

Do not be bind by empty love....choose to be a free person
Free yourself from self-bondage and self-suffering
It is not necessary...
別被空虛的愛所拘束…選擇做一個自由的人
將自己從自我束縛與受苦中釋放吧
那些都是不必要的…

Suffering keeps you where you are, and stops you from moving forward
...but you cannot stop the power of life
You will always want to grow...to feel better
You have desires to fly
To be free and feel love
The Love you want to feel is truly not from outside
The feeling of Love that you truly missed
is the love for yourself
not the love from someone else
苦難使你停滯，阻礙你跨步向前
…但你無法停止生命的力量
你永遠是希望成長…希望感覺更好
你擁有想飛的渴望
成為自由、感受愛
你想感受的愛完全不可能由外在而來
你所深深思念的、對愛的感受
是你對你自己的愛
而不是從其他人來的

Feeling Happy, Joyous is a habit building process...
Sad feeling is a habit too
The more often you allow yourself to feel sadness
The easier the next time you feel sadness
It takes a shorter time to generate sadness in your body
That is why switching to happy feelings takes alittle time
It is a habit building process
It can be done
It is a personal choice
感受快樂吧，喜悅是由習慣進展而來的
悲傷也是一種習慣
你越是允許自己常常浸泡在悲傷的感覺中
你之後越容易感受到悲傷
在你的身體之中花在製造悲傷的時間會變得更短
這就是為什麼要轉換成快樂的感覺會需要一點時間
這是一種習慣進展
而它是可以被做到的
它是個人的選擇

So be nice to yourself
And give yourself a GOOOOD Treat!
A goood Treat of HAPPY FEELINGS!
That's the best gift to your body!
所以請對自己友善
給自己很～～～好～～～的對待！
用快樂的感覺來善待自己
那是對你身體最棒的禮物

I Love Myself For Who I Am
I Accept Myself For Who I Am
我愛真實完整的自己
我接受真實完整的自己

Loveee,
喇～～啵～

jiro

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→ keikoliu:好溫柔的感覺~^^喜歡~~~
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→ wonR:噗哈哈 我翻得很開心哪(妖精芬多精喜憨模式) 老師真GJ！
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