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"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women
And What To Do About It...?"
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women and
How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...
◎ MISTAKE I: Being Too Much Of A Nice Guy?
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem
to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that
always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.
They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful
GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense,
and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it,
you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
◎ MISTAKE II: Trying To "convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like...
but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS"
WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic
and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to
change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best
to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
◎ MISTAKE III: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women
(which we mistakenly think will make them like us),
us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means
"always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED
at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around
and want her approval annoy her...
◎ MISTAKE IV: Trying To get Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner,
bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am,
so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.
That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
◎MISTAKE V: Sharing how You Feel?Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women
is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare. And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached
in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who
are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week,
and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off
and sends her running away faster than just about anything is
a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you"
after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys
who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
Written by David DeAngelo
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