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譯者前言
The attraction is useful - to bait her into investing. Other than that,
attraction is but a vapor. - Mystery.
吸引力很有用--用來誘惑投資，除此之外，吸引力只是浮雲 -- 迷男

兩性關係的根本：投資 -- Tango

Getting them is easy. Keeping them is a whole different story. - David X
得到她們很容易。留住她們是個完全不同的事情 -- David X

【本書，幫助你誘惑投資，留住女人】



為什麼你和你父母吵架，他們永遠不能真正贏你？一個原因是，他們為你投資了幾十年了，他們在自己身上，都沒有投資那麼多。

為什麼那麼多人討厭QQ，卻都有離不開它？因為你在QQ上投資太多了，你花了那麼多心血、時間、金錢構建你的社交圈、QQ空間，相冊。。。轉移成本太大了。因為一旦轉移，一切都要重新開始。。。。

為什麼你高中時用的幾百塊的手機至今都不願扔掉，雖然你有了更好的手機，更貴，價值更高的手機？因為投資，那個老爺手機和一起度過的時間，一起經歷的美好回憶。。。。是投資，讓一切不同





在看這本書前，你必須先瞭解Adam Lyons的把 妹模型，4步走模型，個人認為是最廣泛適用的模型，Mystery的M3模型很棒，但Adam
Lyons的模型個人認為更深入淺出。

1熟悉感
2打破和諧感（上一本書翻譯的內容）下載：
http://paoxue.com/thread-143351-1-1.html
3構建吸引力（本書翻譯的內容）【翻譯這本書，讓我感到興奮。。。
4升級


作者介紹：
Adam Lyons，英國第一PUA，多次被評為世界第一PUA，歐洲最大的約會公司PUA Training公司的全球副總裁。



























Introduction
介紹

Investment is the key thing that leads to attraction.
Breaking rapport is the stage that get the other person to form that initial
investment. That is the first trigger, or spark, of attraction. Once that
initial investment is there you want to capitalize on it and use that to
continue the interaction. This is where qualification comes in. If breaking
rapport is the spark of attraction then qualification is the attraction
wildfire.
投資是構建吸引力的關鍵。
打破和諧感是他人開始投資的時候。打破和諧感是第一個觸發器，或者說，是吸引力的火花。一旦最初的投資已經有了，你想要利用這一點來繼續談話。這就是篩選到來的時候了。如果說打破和諧感是吸引力的火花的話，那麼篩選就是吸引力野火了。



While many may understand the essence behind qualification it might be difficult
to actually think of specific questions or use your own ideas while in set. It
can be challenging to try and create your own, so we thought that compiling a
list of them into a guide would be the easiest way to help others get an idea of
the types of questions and statements they should be aiming for whilst creating
their own qualifiers.
雖然有很多人瞭解了篩選背後的本質，但是實際上，在組合中想出具體的問題或者使用你自己的主意是困難的。這種嘗試還有創造出你自己的篩選是有挑戰性的，所以我們想編譯出篩選列表作為一種指導，這應該會是幫助別人創造出自己的篩選問題和陳述最簡單的方法。





The point isn't to just memorize a bunch of questions off of a list, rather you
should be thinking of the traits and characteristics that you are seeking for in
a partner and qualify the other person based on those qualities. You will often
find that deep rapport is developed as a result of qualification. That is
exactly the type of connection that should be forming!
關鍵不是僅僅將列表上的篩選問題記下來，而是你應該想出你認為你的伴侶應該具有的一些特性和性格，然後基於這些品質去篩選他人。你經常會發現深層次的和諧感的培養是篩選所產生的結果。而那正好就是應該形成的連接類型！




As always, as you continue to speak and interact with the opposite sex you will
find that this is something that will occur naturally in conversation. Use our
examples as a guide and then create your own. If you come up with any other
great ideas or questions feel free to send a message to
[e-mail] and we can add it to the next list. Ways to Qualify
- Adam Lyons
和平常一樣，如果你持續地和異性說、交談，你會發現篩選會在你們的談話中自然發生。把我們的例子作為一種指導，然後創造出你自己的。如果你想出了其他好主意或者問題，隨便發我資訊吧[e-mail]（泡學網的同學如果不嫌棄的話，可以發我Solievil，http://blog.sina.com.cn/solievil，大家一起交流！）然後我們可以把這添加到下一章列表中。篩選的方法--Adam
Lyons。

Why We Qualify
為什麼我們篩選？


Since qualification is the wildfire that spreads attraction it is the single
best way to gain investment, which makes it the most important phase in game.
One of the most common problems guys make is that they try to show high value
traits in order to impress the girl, however this is often obvious and the very
action of trying to impress destroys what value they may have. It's fair to say
Brad Pitt wouldn't spend his time talking about his million dollar home, the
movies he's been in, his different types of cars and the fact that he sleeps
with Angelina Jolie every night. He would more likely ask questions about your
life and be interested in you.
因為篩選是蔓延吸引力的野火，它是一個最好的獲取投資的方法，這也使得篩選成了遊戲中最重要的階段。一個最常見的問題是一些男人試著展示高價值來給女人留下印象，然而這太明顯了，這種試著去給別人留印象的做法摧毀了他們擁有的價值。非常合理地說，布拉德·皮特（美國演員）不會花時間談論他家裡有百萬財富、他演過的電影、他有很多不同的車，而且他還每晚和安吉莉娜-朱力（美國影星）睡覺。他更可能會做是問一些你的生活方面的問題，並且對你的情況有興趣。





People who truly possess high value don't bother trying to impress people.
Instead they use qualification to get others to prove themselves to them. Its
the hardest stage of attraction to actually learn and one that most people fail
to use properly! It can often be hard to know how to qualify the right way, what
type of qualifier to use, and to even know what to qualify on. This manual is
designed to help guide through all of those issues.
那些真正擁有高價值的人不會自找煩惱嘗試著去給他人留下印象。相反，他們用篩選來讓別人向他們證明自己。這是吸引力中最難學習、並且是大多數人錯誤運用的階段！怎樣正確的去篩選，應該用哪種類型的篩選，甚至該篩選什麼經常是困難的。這本手冊就是設計來幫助你解決所有這些問題。




To truly qualify correctly the qualifiers you use should actually have meaning
to you. Qualification is where you can get to know the girl and see if she's the
kind of girl you truly want. For example one person might want a bisexual girl
and qualify with, "About every girl I know has at least kissed another girl. I
love that. Have you ever done that or at least thought about it?" while another
might want a religious girl and qualify on asking what type of religion they
follow.
一個真正正確運用的篩選，應該是一個對你來說有意義的篩選。篩選是你可以去瞭解女孩的時候，看看她是不是你想要的那種女孩子。比如，一個人也許想要一個雙性性取向的女孩子，就會篩選說"我認識的每個女人最少親吻過另一個女孩，我喜歡那樣。你做過這種事嗎，或者至少想過這個嗎？"而另一個想要一個宗教女孩的人會篩選問別人他們有什麼宗教信仰。








With that said, it is strongly suggested that you use the examples provided in
this book as simply ideas and stepping stones to come up with your very own list
of qualifiers that you use when out.
就這麼說，強烈建議你把這本書中所提供的例子作為簡單的主意，作為你想出屬於你自己的篩選的進階石，然後在出去的時候運用它們。



























Types of Qualifiers
篩選的種類



Qualification Statements
陳述篩選

Small Qualification Hoops
小篩選圈套

Medium Qualification Hoops
中等篩選圈套

Large Qualification Hoops
大篩選圈套


The four types of qualifiers are listed above. Each of them serve a separate
purpose and can create different levels of attraction, however they all have
different concepts that are important to grasp and understand. We will outline
them below.
4種篩選列在了上面。它們中的每一種都服務於一個單獨的目的，並且可以產生不同層次的吸引，然而他們都有不同的概念，領會和理解這不同是非常重要的。我們會在下面概述。





Qualification Statements
篩選陳述

A qualification statement is a comment that you would make to someone that you
have preloaded with a characteristic that you like. The characteristic is
usually a positive one that they will want to live up to. A brief example of a
qualification statement is listed below.
一個篩選陳述就是一個你對他人所說的預先加入你所喜歡的特徵的評論。這個特徵往往是別人所希望做到的積極的特徵。一個簡單的篩選陳述的例子列在了下面。


"Hey, you seem really friendly, I just wanted to ask you a quick question."
嘿，你看起來非常友好，我就想問你一個簡短的問題。


The sentence above is an example of a qualification statement. Saying "You seem
really friendly" is the qualifier. What it does is set the tone for the
interaction because by telling them they looks friendly makes them want to live
up to the expectation of being a nice person. They are then more open and apt to
speak to you and answer whatever question you may have.
上面的句子就是一個篩選陳述的例子。說"你看起來非常友好"就是一個篩選。這樣做就是對交談設定了一個基調，因為通過告訴他們他們看起來非常友好會讓他們想要做到這個期望，做一個友好的人。他們接著就會更加開放，更會和你說話，回答你可能會問的無論什麼問題。




Qualification statements are great because they require minimal investment on
the other persons' part except to agree. In order for them to be in agreement
every qualification statement should be framed in a positive way. Using these
allows us to shape their behavior as they will comply to the positive trait.
陳述篩選很棒，因為他們要求了他人最小的投資，只要同意就好。為了讓他們同意每一個陳述篩選，陳述應該被框架成積極向上的。用這些可以讓我們塑造他們的行為，因為他們會遵循積極向上的特性。




Qualification statements are great for starting an interaction as they work as
great opening lines. You can then use them to transition to another type of
opener, such as a functional opener or an opinion opener. They are also meant to
be used throughout your conversation as they can help solidify your interaction.
A brief example of a qualification statement to be used throughout the
conversation is listed below.
用陳述篩選來開啟一段對話是非常棒的，同樣這也是非常好的開場。你可以用他們來過渡到另一個類型的開場白，比如說功能開場白或意見開場。他們同樣在你的整個談話中運用，因為陳述開場能夠鞏固你們的交談。一個簡單的陳述篩選用來談話中的例子列在了下面：


"You're not like all of the other bitchy New York girls. I like that."
你不想其他所有毒辣的紐約女孩子那樣，我喜歡這個。


The statement that you make should cause the person to "prove" that they have
the quality you listed. From the example statement above, they will want to
prove that they aren't bitchy and rather be more nice and friendly. A list of
examples of qualifying statements can be found over the following pages.
你所做的陳述應該引起他人來向你證明他們擁有你所說的那個品質。從上面的那個陳述例子來看，他們將會想要向你證明她們不犯賤，而是非常友好和善良的。陳述篩選的例子列表可以會在下面看到。



Small Qualification Hoop
小篩選圈套

A small qualification hoop is a question that only requires a yes or no answer.
Using small hoops begins an easy screening frame and elicits an amount of true
investment. Any qualification statement can be turned into a small hoop by
simply turning it into a question format. An example would be, "Do you cook?"
一個小篩選圈套是一個只需要回到"是"或"否"的問題。用一個小篩選圈套來開啟一個簡單的遮罩框架，同時誘出大量真正的投資。任何陳述篩選可以變成小篩選圈套，只需要簡單地把它變成一個問題格式就行。一個例子就是"你會燒菜嗎？"



Being able to successfully qualify is not based on the question that is asked.
The response and answer given is what qualification actually is.
能夠成功篩選不是基於所問的問題。所給與的反應和回答才是真正的篩選。




In the previous example of asking if they cook, the response given could have
just been a yes or no answer. That is OK because that is all that is required of
a small hoop, but it is minimal investment. However, they could also invest
further by giving a more detailed response:
在先前的例子中，問他們是否會燒菜，對方給予的反應可能就僅僅是一個是或否。這沒關係，因為這只是一個小篩選圈套，
這是最小的投資。然而，他們也可以通過給予更多的反映來投資更多：

"Yes, I do cook. I actually make an amazing lasagna that my mom taught me when I
was little."
"是的，我會燒菜。我實際上會做我媽媽小時候教我的超級好吃的千層面"



Obviously the response above is more lengthy which means more investment on
their side is being given. The more the other person invests, the better.
很明顯，上面的反應更加長，這意味著他們給予了更多的投資。別人投資的越多，越好。




Medium Qualification Hoops
中等篩選圈套


A medium qualification hoop is one that comes off of the back of a small one.
With a medium hoop we want more than just a yes or no response, so you want to
question them further to elicit a more detailed answer. Asking the questions
what or how are great ways to turn a small hoop into a medium one. Probing
further into the response asks them to further explain their answer. For
example, if after asking if they liked to cook we then asked, "So what is your
signature dish?" it would probably get the more lengthy answer we saw earlier.
一個中等篩選圈套就是緊跟著小篩選圈套後面的。運用中等篩選圈套，我們想要的不僅僅是一個是或否的反應，所以要更加深入的向他們提問來誘出更多細節的回答。問什麼（What）和怎樣（How）是把小篩選圈套變成中等篩選圈套非常棒的方式。更深入的回饋讓他們更深入地解釋他們的回答。比如，如果問他們是否喜歡燒菜後，我們接著問"那，你的招牌菜是什麼"這可能會讓我們得到比我們之間看到的更長的回答。




Another type of medium question is one that is a bit more personal, such as the
example that we listed earlier of asking a girl if she has ever experimented
with another girl. If you can ask that type of question, yet don't ask for an
explanation, then you are getting a good form of investment and attraction. You
can then use a larger hoop to dig deeper and get the type of investment that we
want!
另外一種中等問題是問一些私人的，比如我們之前所舉的例子，問一個女人是否嘗試過和另外一個女孩子親密，然後你就得到了一種不錯的投資和吸引。你可以用大篩選圈套來更深入，得到我們想要的那種投資！


Large Qualification Hoops
大篩選圈套

A large qualification hoop is an open ended question that encourages the other
person to invest into the conversation and justify themselves to you. This is
the most powerful technique to use as they require the participation of the
other person in question. They are open-ended questions because we want more
than just a one word answer.
大篩選圈套是一個開放性的問題，這個問題鼓勵他人投資到交流中，向你證明他自己（譯者注：大家還記得Zen of
cool，禪之酷嗎？你自己一定不要向別人證明你自己，這只能證明你價值低於他，除非你在工作面試中。。。）這是可以使用的最強大的技巧，因為他們需要他人參與到問題中來。這是開放性的問題，因為我們想要更多，而不是僅僅一個字的回答。






The word why is a powerful tool in encouraging someone to continue speaking more
on a subject and to trigger the qualifying responses. A large hoop gains the
most investment and is the hardest to use for that very reason. In order to use
a large hoop they should already be fine with every type before it. A large hoop
not only asks them to explain farther but to also branch off and expand on the
topic or give a detailed story.
這個詞為什麼（Why）是非常強大的用來鼓勵他人繼續在某個主題上談論和引出篩選回饋的工具。一個大的篩選圈套獲得最大的投資，也正是因為這個原因，是最難運用的。為了運用大篩選圈套，他人應該先完全跳進前面的那種圈套。一個大篩選圈套不僅僅是讓他們去解釋更多，同樣也是擴展，延伸主題或者得到一個更詳細的故事。


"What is the best place you have ever traveled to? Why did you love it?"
"你去旅遊過的最好的地方是哪裡？為什麼你愛它？"



The first part of the sentence, what is the best place you have ever traveled
to, would ask for a basic, one word response. By following with asking why they
loved it turns the question into a large hoop and will garner the most
investment and a better response.
句子的第一部分，你旅遊過的最好的地方是哪裡，需要一個基礎的，一個詞的回答。通過接著問一個為什麼他們愛這個地方，把問題變成了一個大篩選圈套，會得到最大的投資和更好的回饋。




If someone chooses to not answer a qualification question it might be because
they are not attracted or invested enough into the type of question you are
asking, they don't want to make themselves seem lower in your eyes, or she might
not know how to qualify.
如果某人選擇不回答這個篩選問題，這也許是因為他們對你所問的這類問題沒感到吸引力或投資力度，他們不想要降低自己在你眼中的地位，或者她不知道怎樣取得資格。



If this happens then go back to asking easier and more basic questions and build
up to the bigger and more advanced ones as you go. An important key to remember
is to always reward someone for the investment they give. Rewarding should be
done by the forms of verbal and physical affirmation, which, in essence, is
building up sexual escalation. Take the dialogue below as an example of how to
build that up.
如果這種情況發生了，那麼退回去問一寫更簡單的、更基礎的問題，然後建立其更多更高級的篩選。一個需要記住的非常重要的關鍵是，總是獎勵對方的投資。獎勵應該是通過一種口頭和身體上的肯定來進行，這，在本質上，就是建立起性升級。看一看下面的對話作為一個例子來學習怎樣構建這個


"If you could live anywhere for 6 months, where would it be and why?"
如果你可以在任何地方住6個月，你會選擇在哪，為什麼？

"I would live in Miami because I love the warm weather and being so close to the
beach."
我們選擇在邁阿密（美國佛羅裡州達東南部港市）因為我喜歡溫暖的天氣，而且那是如此靠近海灘。

"That's awesome, I've been to Miami and I love it there!" (positive verbal
affirmation) "Let's hug to that." (sexual escalation)
"棒極了，我去過邁阿密而且我也愛那兒（正向的口頭肯定）""讓我們為此擁抱一下吧"（性升級）






How to Qualify
怎樣篩選


Now that we understand the essence behind qualification and how it works, here
is our list of ways to qualify!
既然我們知道了篩選背後的本質和它是怎樣發揮作用的，現在讓我們看看篩選方法的列表吧！


Qualifier Statements 28
陳述篩選 28




I love how friendly you are.
我喜歡你這麼友善的人。

You seem to be really independent.
你看起來似乎是個真正獨立自主的人。

You look like the bad girl.
你看起來像個壞女孩。

I can tell you're very intelligent.
我可以看出你是一個非常聰明的人。

You're the type of girl that always seems up for a fun time.
你是那種看起來總是沉浸在快樂中的女孩。




I can tell you're someone who's very positive.
我敢說你是一個非常積極向上的人。

I bet you're the type of girl who doesn't care what other people think.
我打賭你是那種不在乎別人怎麼看你的那種女孩子。

It's great how you don't take yourself too seriously.
你對自己不太較真真的太棒了

You have a great sexual energy about you…
most women can't pull that off.
你有很強大的性能量。。。
      大多數女人都沒有這個。

It's great how you always smile.
你這樣笑口常開真是太好了。



You're definitely a rebel, I can tell.
你肯定是一個叛逆者，我敢說。

You're like the kind of girl who really lives in the moment.
你就像那種真正活在當下的女孩子。

You seem very outgoing.
你看起來非常外向。

I love how playful you are.
我喜歡你那麼好玩的人。

It's great to actually meet a girl who's humble and not stuck up.
遇到這樣謙虛而不自大的女孩子真實太好了






You're absolutely adorable.
你簡直可愛極了。

I think you're the type of person who's open to new things.
我想你是那種對新事物保持開放的人。

It's awesome how you seem to love to laugh.
你似乎很愛笑，這真的棒極了。

It's great how confident you are.
你這樣如此自信真的超級棒。

You have a great vibe, you're so carefree.
你有一個很棒的共振，你是如此的毫不在乎。






I like a girl who's always down for anything.
我喜歡這樣對所有事情都很認真的女孩子。

You're the type of girl who always keeps the party going.
你是那種總是讓派對氣氛活躍的那種女孩。

You seem very comfortable with me.
你看起來似乎和我在一起很舒適

I can tell you're a very social person.
我敢說你是一個愛交際的人。

It's great how you can make your own decisions without relying on your friends.
你可以不依賴你的朋友自己的做決定真的太棒了。





Bubbly girls are the best. I love that you giggle so much.
活潑的女孩最好了。我喜歡你總是傻傻地笑。

I like how you're a sensual person.
我喜歡你是如此的感性。

You really know how to keep a conversation going, it's so easy to talk to you.
你真的知道如何讓一段對話繼續，和你談話很輕鬆。

I love how down to earth you are. That's hard to find.
我喜歡你是如此的實際。這樣的很難找了。

The best types of girls are those who are always up for trying something new.
最好的女孩類型是那種總是打算嘗試新的東西的女孩。




Small and Medium Qualification Hoops -28

小的和中等的篩選圈套 28



Are you adventurous?
你喜歡冒險嗎？

Are you spontaneous?
你自覺嗎？

Do you cook?
你會燒菜嗎？

Are you a party girl?
你是一個派對女孩嗎？

What hobbies do you have?
你有什麼愛好？





Are you willing to try all kinds of sexual experiences?
你願意嘗試各種性體驗嗎？

What's your favorite book?
你最喜歡的書是什麼？

What's your favorite movie?
你最喜歡的電影是什麼？

What's the craziest thing you've ever done?
你做過的最瘋狂的事情是什麼？

If you could be anything in the world what would you want to be?
如果你可以成為這個世界上的任何一樣東西，你想要成為什麼？





What do you value most in a person?
你對一個人最看重他什麼？

What's your biggest fear?
你最大的恐懼是什麼？

What's your oldest memory?
你最陳舊的記憶是什麼？

What kind of car do you drive?
你開什麼樣的車？

How good of a kisser are you?
你是一個好的接吻者嗎？





What's the best thing you can cook?
你會燒的最好的東西是什麼？

What sports do you like/play?
你喜歡/玩什麼運動？

What kind of music do you like?
你喜歡什麼樣的音樂？

What's your favorite type of pet?
你最喜歡的寵物種類是什麼？

What do you like to drink?
你喜歡喝什麼？




Do you want to be a mom one day?
你想要做一天母親嗎？

What's the worst pick up line you've ever heard?
你聽過的最差的開場白是什麼？

What's the best pick up line you've ever heard?
你聽過的最棒的開場白是什麼？

How important is fashion to you?
時尚對你來說有多重要？

What is the sexiest thing about a guy?
你認為一個男人最性感的東西是什麼？




Do you always take care of your fashion/appearance?
你經常打理好你的時尚/外表嗎？

What is an interesting thing you have done in the past week?
你上周做了什麼有趣的事情？

What did you want to be when you were 5 years old?
你5歲的時候想要成為什麼？

What is the last thing you have done that you have actually enjoyed?
你最近做過什麼你非常享受的事情？

Out of everyone in this bar, apart from me, who is the most interesting person
you have spoken to?
在這個酒吧中，除我之外，哪個是你談話過的最有趣的人？




Large Hoops -32
大篩選圈套 32






What qualities do you look for in a guy?
你喜歡有那種品質的男人？

Which is most important to you... health, wealth, or relationships?
健康、財富、人際關係。。。哪個對你來說最最重要？

What is the best date you have ever been on?
你經歷過的最棒的約會是什麼？

What's your favorite sexual position?
你最性感的姿勢是什麼？

Tell me three interesting things about yourself.
告訴我3件關於你的有趣的事情。



How many guys have you been with?
你交往過多少男人？

What makes you unique?
是什麼讓你與眾不同？

What are your thoughts on true love and soul mates?
你對真愛和心靈伴侶的想法是怎樣的？

What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
你做過最冒險的事情是什麼？

What are your goals in life?
你對生活的目標是什麼？





Why did you get into your job?
為什麼你選了這份工作？

There are many beautiful women in here, what sets you apart?
這邊有那麼多漂亮的女人，是什麼把你你們分開了？

What did you want to be when you were 5 years old?
你5歲的時候你想要成為什麼？

Why aren't you doing that now?
你為什麼現在不做那個了？

What's something most people don't know about you?
有什麼關於你的事情是別人不知道的？

What would you say your main qualities are?
你主要的品質是什麼？





What do you like about a guy based only on looks?
你喜歡一個男人什麼僅僅是長相嗎？

What's your ideal first date?
你理想的第一次約會是什麼？

If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you want to go and
why?
如果你現在能夠去世界上任何一個地方，你會去哪裡？

Why do you like _______?
為什麼你喜歡_______?

Would you be as confident if you didn't have good looks?
如果你沒有好的長相的話你還會自信嗎？





What are your pet peeves?
什麼是你不能忍受的問題？

What's your sexual fantasy?
你的性幻想是什麼？

If we could be doing anything right now what would you want it to be and why?
如果我們現在可以做任何事情，你想要做什麼，為什麼？

What happened during your first kiss?
你第一接吻的時候發生了什麼？

Why is ________ important to you?
為什麼________對你那麼重要？





What plans do you have to follow your ambitions?
你對你的目標做了什麼計畫？

What's your family like?
你的家庭怎樣？

What was it like growing up?
這個感覺怎樣？

What's the best thing you liked about the place you're from and the best thing
about here?
你來的地方和這兒，你最喜歡的事情分別是什麼？

What are the characteristics of the people that you like to surround yourself
with?
你喜歡什麼樣性格的人和你相伴？





Have you ever cheated on a boy friend?
你對你的男朋友出過軌嗎？

If you could physically change one thing about yourself what would it be and
why?
如果你身體上可以改變一樣東西，你喜歡改變的是什麼，為什麼？

If for some reason you lost your job tomorrow what would you do to support
yourself?
如果因為一些原因你明天事業了，你會做什麼來養活自己？

How do you know you're in love?
你怎麼知道你陷入愛戀了？

Spit or swallow?
吐出來還是咽下去？





You're not one of those girls who just dismisses what others say, are you?
你不是那種簡單駁回其他人所說的話的女孩，是不？

What do you think of girls who automatically assume that every guy who speaks to
them is hitting on them?
你是怎樣看那些認為男人和她們說話就是看上她們了的女孩子們？

Do you believe in serendipity?
你相信緣分嗎？

Is it trashy when girls go to strip clubs? How about guys? Why do you think
that?
女孩子去脫衣夜總會很爛嗎？那男人去呢？為什麼你這樣想？

Would you marry for love or money?
你會為錢還是愛結婚？






















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