推 xm: 謝謝翻譯 05/22 00:05
推 bluesai: 謝謝 05/22 00:59
When someone asks for advice, they are sometimes only seeking out
validation and/or approval for something they have already chosen to do.
Therefore, giving advice can be risky business. Someone may come to you
soon with a request for your input, insight, and wisdom. You have
something valuable to offer this person, and others as well, so don't be
afraid to speak your mind. What you have to say may not sink in right
away, but it will sink in and be quite helpful eventually.
當別人問你意見的時候，他們有時只是想要為自己的選擇尋求認可和／或贊同，因此，
給建議其實是有風險的。某個人可能很快就會來找你，他需要你的幫助、深刻的見解
與智慧。你擁有珍貴的東西可以幫上他，也能幫助其他人，所以不要害怕說出自己的
想法。你該說的也許不會立刻被對方接受，但是對方最終會聽進去的，而且覺得相當
受用。
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願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。
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