推 feu5090: 謝謝分享 05/15 13:28
親愛的月之子，有人讓你失望了，或是在某些方面犯了錯，傷害了你。
你有權感到難過、悲傷，甚至生氣。
你可能會想要發洩情緒，批評對方的所作所為，但如果你採取另一種方式，可能會得到更
好的結果，甚至產生巨大的正面影響。
與其批評或發怒，不如試著鼓勵對方、啟發對方，並以善意對待。
這樣的反應可能會提升對方的自尊，讓他們更有信心。
這對你來說，也會帶來良好的結果。
Someone has let you down or made mistakes that have hurt you in some way, dear
Moonchild. You have a right to be upset, sad, or even angry. You may want to
lash out and criticize what this person has done, but you can get a much bette
r result - and make a huge difference - if you take another approach. Rather t
han criticizing or lashing out, try being encouraging, inspiring, and kind. Th
at kind of reaction may help to boost this person's self-esteem and help them
to believe in themselves. That would work out well for you too.
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