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Family and Friendships
Your role as the nurturer and guardian in your relationships may be
highlighted in 2026, dear Cancer – but remember, you are not required to
hold every relationship together. Early in the year, complex family
responsibilities or shifting friendship dynamics might test your patience.
You may feel an almost irresistible temptation to completely take over –
to organize every detail, fix every problem, soothe every feeling, and
manage every situation. Pause. Ask yourself: Does stepping in with such
force truly help, or does it merely enable irresponsible behaviors in
others?
By the middle of the year, deep friendships can feel nourishing and
restorative when kept simple: a regular, comforting check-in, a shared
meal, a quiet walk in nature, or a casual meeting that doesn't demand any
outward performance or emotional labor. Late June into July, established
plans may change quickly and unexpectedly; conscientiously avoid taking
these last-minute alterations as a sharp, personal slight against you. As
the year's momentum gently winds down, you may reconnect with someone from
your past in a more mature and grounded way – there will be less history
drama and more present-day, honest truth. Your inherent, nuanced emotional
intelligence is truly your greatest gift, dear Cancer. Use it wisely and
deliberately to help create healthier, more sustainable patterns, rather
than carrying heavy, unnecessary burdens.
在你的情感關係中,你是一個孕育者和引路人的角色,而這在2026年裡也許會變得更
加重要——可是你要記住,你不需要維繫每一段關係。在年初的時候,複雜的家庭責
任或是友情出現變化都可能會考驗你的耐心。你或許會感受到一股難以抗拒的誘惑,
想要徹底掌控一切——安排好每一個細節、解決每一個問題、安撫每一個情緒、以及
處理好每一個情況。停,請你捫心自問:如此強勢地介入是真的會有幫助嗎?或者這
僅僅是在助長其他人不負責任的行為呢?
到了年中的時候,如果一段深厚的友情能維持單純的樣貌,你就會感受到被滋養與被
療癒了:一份定期且令人感到舒適的問候、一起吃頓飯、一起在大自然裡靜靜地散步、
或者是來一場隨性的聚會,而不需要任何外在的表演或情緒勞動。從六月直到七月,
已經預定好的計畫也許會出乎意料且快速地有所改變;請小心謹慎地避免把這個最後
一刻才出現的變化視為針對你個人的一種冒犯。隨著這一年的強勢動能逐漸溫和地緩
了下來,你可能會跟某個故人以更成熟且穩重的方式重新聯絡上——屆時將不再有過
去那些狗屁倒灶的八點檔劇情,反而會有更多立足於當下且誠實的真相。你那與生俱
來且細膩的情商正是你最珍貴的天賦,親愛的巨蟹。明智地運用這個天賦,並且小心
翼翼地協助創造更健康也更能長久發展的相處模式,而不是承擔沉重且不必要的重擔。
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