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Your desire to address an unfairness you have experienced does not have to be complicated. You don't have to maintain a long list of reasons for feeling hurt or betrayed. You don't have to convey what someone has done and what you have experienced because of it. They know all that. All you really have to do is state that you are aware of it, too, and disappointed by it, since this may have come from someone you once liked and cared about. Don't stress yourself over it, dear Cancer. The facts are the facts, and simply expressing your reasons for keeping your distance should be enough. 你對於提出你最近遇到的不公不義的事情的渴望不一定會是複雜難解的議題,你不需 要列出一長串的理由清單才能為自己受傷或是被背叛的感受背書。你不需要因此而表 達出某人做了什麼事,以及你經歷了什麼。他們都知道的。你真正該做的是表明你也 察覺到了這個情況,並且為此而感到失望,因為這也許來自某個你曾經喜歡過也在乎 過的人。不要因此而給自己太多壓力,親愛的巨蟹。事實就是事實,而你只需要表達 自己保持距離的緣由,這樣理應就夠了。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 180.176.84.12 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Cancer/M.1775661098.A.2FC.html
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