推 feu5090: 謝謝分享 04/15 15:22
Someone in your world may be refusing to take responsibility for a mistake
they made, or for something they shouldn't have said. You may see this as
arrogance, dear Moonchild, or as a way to shirk their obligations. If you
look closer and think about that person's past experiences and background,
you may discover that there's more going on. There could be an indirect
connection to what they have been through, and an insecurity that makes
them lie to themselves about their role in a problematic situation. Show
compassion, and they'll come around.
你身邊的某個人也許拒絕為他所犯的錯,或是他不該說的話承擔起責任。你可能將之
視為傲慢的行徑,親愛的月之子,或者是逃避他的責任或義務的方式。如果你觀察得
更仔細,並且思考那個人過往的經歷與背景,那你或許就會發現事情並不像表面上看
起來的那麼簡單。這也許跟他所經歷過的有間接的關聯性,而他們心裡有一股不安全
感在作祟,導致他在一個問題重重的情況裡,對自己應該要扮演的角色說謊。展現出
你的同情心,然後他就會回心轉意。
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