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Someone's evasiveness, distance, or coldness probably has nothing whatsoever to do with you. Because you are so sensitive, though, you might take a certain person's behavior to heart, and you may wonder what you did wrong. There you go, blaming yourself again, dear Moonchild! Any sense of a chasm that you perceive between yourself and someone else today has more to do with their own state of mind than with you. Just be kind and compassionate, and they will come around. 某人的逃避、距離感、或是冷漠或許都跟你沒有任何關係,不過因為你是如此的敏感, 所以你可能會把某個特定人士的行為放在心上,而你也許會忍不住懷疑自己做錯了什 麼。你看,你又來了,你又在自責了,親愛的月之子!今天你察覺到自己跟某個人之 間的鴻溝,更多是源自於他自己的心態與情緒,而不是你的問題。你只要保持和善與 同情心,他就會改變自己的想法的。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 180.176.84.12 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Cancer/M.1777501601.A.208.html