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When you worry heavily about something, it is often about either security or someone you care for deeply. You want to know - no, you need to know - that everything will be fine, and your mind loops through all the possible outcomes again and again. That's a lot of energy directed at something that has not even happened, dear Moonchild. Your energy would be much better spent if it were directed at imagining the most hopeful outcome and believing that it will be. You have the power to infuse a current concern with hope and optimism, and you should. 當你非常憂慮某件事情的時候,這往往是關於安全感,或是某個你很在乎的人。你想 知道—不,你必須知道—一切都會沒事的,而你會在腦海中一遍又一遍地盤點與反覆 思量所有可能的結果。你把大量的精力耗費在一件甚至根本還沒發生的事情上,親愛 的月之子。如果你把那些精力運用在想像最充滿希望的結局,並且相信它真的會實現, 這樣才是比較好的做法。你擁有讓現況滿希望與樂觀的力量,而你也應該要這樣做。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 180.176.84.12 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Cancer/M.1784304769.A.44E.html
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