推 kowei526: 謝謝提醒 03/10 12:10
推 AnitaWW: 推推 03/11 23:22
Just because someone asks for your opinion on a choice they are making does no
t mean they are ready to hear the truth about what you think. Before you choos
e to answer someone today, dear Gemini, try to feel the situation out first. A
re they truly looking for your insight and your advice, or could they be looki
ng just for validation instead? If you think they just want your endorsement o
f their choice and you don't feel that you can provide it, you may want to bac
k off and remain neutral for your own peace of mind. Give them a chance to be
open to constructive criticism.
僅只因為某個人就他們所做的選擇向你尋求意見，
並不代表他們準備好要聽取你所想表達的真相。
今天，在你選擇回答某個人之前，親愛的雙子們，
試著先感受情境。
他們是真的尋求你的見解和建議，或者是他們只是尋求驗證而已？
如果你認為他們只是想要你認可他們的選擇 ，而你不想提供給他們，
你可能想要退後一步，為了維持你內心的平靜而保持中立。
讓他們有機會接受建設性的批評。
Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。
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