推 AnitaWW: 推 12/17 15:46
Someone’s expectations of you might exceed what you had in mind to do or to g
ive. But because you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, dear Gemini, you mi
ght wind up going along with what is expected anyway. But try to see this in a
n objective way. You are trying to protect someone else, but what about you? I
s it fair to do more than you feel comfortable doing? If you don't feel good a
bout what is expected, then explain what you had in mind. Be fair to yourself.
某個人對你的期待也許超過你想做的或給予的。
但是，因為你不想要傷害任何人的感情，親愛的雙子們，
所以最終你會依照預期行事。
但是，試著以客觀的角度去看待事情。
你也許試著保護某個人，但是那你自己呢？
做出超出你覺得舒服的事情是否公平？
如果你對預期的結果感覺不滿意，那麼請解釋你的想法。
對你自己公平一點。
Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。
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