推 AnitaWW: 推推 02/11 20:34
You may be tempted to be more assertive with someone who is refusing to give y
ou the answer you need or to join you in a mission they promised they would he
lp out with. That might not be the best way to approach this, though, dear Gem
ini. If you get too pushy - even if you feel justified in doing so - you might
cause that person to retreat into their shell and move even further away. The
re may be a concern they have that they have not yet raised, so a gentle appro
ach can help them to talk about it. And then you will have the chance to overc
ome any issues and move forward.
當某個人拒絕給你你需要的答案，或者是拒絕加入他們之前答應你要幫忙的任務時，
你就可能變得更加武斷。
這個不是這個問題最好的解決方法，親愛的雙子們。
如果你太咄咄逼人 — 即使你覺得這樣做是合理的 —
那樣也許造成那個人退到自己的殼裡，甚至離你更遠。
他們可能有一些擔憂尚未提出，因此溫和的方法可以幫助他們談論這個問題。
那麼你將會有機會去克服任何問題，並且繼續前進。
Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。
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