3. Haters are likely your fault. That’s right. We all screw up, but they are
drawn to and become obsessed with your fallibility. Think of a 15 year old
who hates their geometry teacher because of some hypocrisy or weakness of
character; the kid is likely right, and therefore a healthy challenge to the
development of that teacher’s greater Self. Open your heart to critique,
once you’re safe from the haters. You will grow from it, but that’s not
their goal. They desire your demise.
4. You can ignore them. This one required ppl wiser than me to remind me of,
but it’s true. Unless they choose to grow (which means acknowledging error
and making restitution), they remain stuck where they are indefinitely. Which
means… you really don’t need to worry about them. Tie your camel up, but don
’t let it crush your ability to give and to trust and be vulnerable.
他媽的死禿子廢話這麼多
30幾項到底花多什麼時間在想Hater
去跟Hater結婚好不好
自己根本就是個終極Hater
The Hater of Haters
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