推 jalll: 感謝分享～ 05/04 08:22
推 gokobego: 最近真的蠻厭倦沒有結論的談話 05/04 09:55
推 jalll: 但沈默不一定有好處QQ 05/04 12:49
If you choose not to share what you are thinking and feeling with someone
who is demanding a conversation, they may accuse you of hiding something.
But you have been there and done that already, Scorpio, and you are
growing tired of the conversations that seem to go nowhere. But silence
won't get you anywhere either. What you need to do is to create a
framework in which to talk about this matter. It must be mutually agreed
upon, and you must both have your chance to speak up. Both sides speaking
up - and listening - will be critical to a happy resolution.
如果你不跟那個需要溝通的人說出你的想法和感受，他們可能會指責你在隱瞞，但是
其實你一向如此，天蠍，而你越來越厭倦了這種看似沒有結論的對話。不過沉默也不
會對你有好處，你需要的是提出一個架構來討論這整件事，雙方都必須取得共識，而
你也必須要有機會說出自己的想法。雙方都要說出自己的想法—以及傾聽—這樣做才
實際，並且引導你們想出讓彼此都高興的解決方法。
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