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There may be something you feel very strongly about now, Scorpio, and you want to take a stand. But before you get on your soap box, consider this: the harder you try to influence someone, and the more pressure you exert, the less likely you will probably be in convincing anyone that you are right. You can be a passionate advocate for what you believe in, but sometimes you become so intense and focused, that you don't consider what someone else is feeling and believing. Be open and gentle in your approach, and you may be able to convert someone to your side of things much easier. 你現在可能非常強烈地感覺到某些東西,天蠍,而你想要採取堅定的立場。但是在你 踏上演講台之前,好好想想看:你越努力試著影響某人、對他施加更多壓力,你就越 不可能說服他你是對的。你可以為了自己的信念而成為熱情的支持者,可是有時候你 流於極端和執著,以致於你沒有考慮到別人的感受和理念。保持開闊的心胸與溫和的 態度,這樣一來,你或許就可以更輕易地讓某個人改變立場去站在你這邊。 -- 相遇要在對的時間,重逢也是。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 90.192.149.170 ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Scorpio/M.1526354913.A.B76.html
jalll: Be open and gentle 05/15 13:30
rrr1900: 為自己的信念成為熱情的支持者 05/15 17:15
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