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Someone's little idiosyncrasies or annoying traits may be getting to you. The more time you spend around this person, the crazier they make you feel. The problem may be, Scorpio, that you need to collaborate with this person in some capacity, and there is no way to avoid it. Keep in mind that you are the only one who can control your own reactions. You can't change this person's quirks, but you can look for positive qualities this person possesses and choose to focus on those things. That will help you to form a bond, and maybe even come to like the way the collaboration with this individual proceeds. 某人有一些隱微的特性或是令人煩躁的特質,這可能讓你不爽。當你花越多時間在這 個人身上,他就越會讓你氣到抓狂。問題應該是在於你需要跟這個人合作,並且多多 包容他,而這是不能避免的。記住,你是唯一一個可以控制自己的反應的人。你不能 改變這個人的怪異特性,但是你可以看看這個人有哪些好的人格特質,並且選擇著重 在這些部份,這樣做將會幫助你建立起跟他的連結,甚至可能會喜歡上你們合作的方 式。 -- 相遇要在對的時間,重逢也是。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 90.192.149.170 ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Scorpio/M.1527299747.A.A6A.html
jalll: 只能控制自己了 05/26 11:15
koichi: 受教了 05/26 12:11
mrsmonster: 真的!!!同事一直亂叫我名字把我氣個半死 05/26 12:26
sunnyo: 唉 05/26 14:32
elfsoosuk: 好實際的建議 05/27 01:19