推 taipoo: 永遠都要相信自己 02/25 03:03
Bullies prey on insecurity. They know how to focus in on someone's flaw,
mock them, and make them feel inferior. But bullying does not just happen
to kids on playgrounds during recess. This happens to adults in grown-up
life all the time, and it isn't always as obvious as it is among children.
The key to beating a bully is believing in yourself, Scorpio. If someone
is making you feel "less-than" in some way now, you need to remind
yourself of all that you offer - because you offer a lot. Don't be forced
into anything.
霸凌者靠不安的感覺傷害別人，他們知道要如何聚焦在某個人的缺點，嘲笑他，然後
讓他覺得自己比較低下。可是霸凌不只會發生在小孩子下課時的遊戲場上，這會發生
在大人一生的成長過程中，而這並不總是像小孩子的霸凌那樣明顯。擊敗霸凌者的關
鍵是相信自己，天蠍。如果某個人現在正在用某種方式讓你覺得「自己比較差勁」，
那你需要提醒自己所有可以給予的——因為你可以給出很多很多，不要被逼著做任何
事。
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願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。
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