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It may seem as though someone is trying to make you a scapegoat for a mistake they made, which would surely make you angry. You do have to correct this assumption, of course, but walking away after that is discouraged. If you can, keep your chin up and take the high road by offering to help the one who made the mistake in the first place. It may have been done out of insecurity or fear, and by showing them the right way, you will come away from the situation looking good and doing a good deed. 好像有人正試圖讓你成為他的代罪羔羊,為他所犯的錯誤來承擔責任,而這一定會讓 你生氣。當然,你的確必須糾正這個預想,可是並不鼓勵你在說清楚、講明白之後一 走了之。如果可以的話,你要藉由提供援助給那個在一開始就犯了錯的人,以利保持 自己的尊嚴,並且展現出自己的風度。對方之所以這樣做也許是出於恐懼或不安全感, 而你透過以正確的方式示範給他看,你將會建立起良好的形象,還能成就一樁善舉, 最終從這個困境順利脫身。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 123.192.193.56 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Scorpio/M.1768236674.A.A45.html