看板 Taurus 關於我們 聯絡資訊
你可能曾明確的表示過現在還太早,有些事情你還沒準備好去應對,或是表態自身的意見。 呣呣~最簡單的方式就是直截了當的說:我需要時間。這樣一來可能會有更多資訊讓你做判 斷,但也可能沒有。 告訴他人要尊重妳的立場。 若他們沒有這麼做,那也不是你的責任問題。 每個人都有在公開某些事以後,再事後反悔的情況。但現在既然事情已成定局,那麼相對 而言也會輕鬆一些。 註:有時可能會被迫表明某些立場問題,舉凡政治、人際、抑或是親屬關係等,或許你會想 以推辭作為應對方式。倘若不慎表態自身的立場,那麼也不需要太過擔心,因為「貓咪已經 從袋子跳出來了」(秘密已經公開了)。 You may have revealed something prematurely , and now others may have a lot of questions that you aren't yet prepared to answer. The simplest path to dealing with this situation , Taurus , might be to explain directly that you with you had waited , and that more information will or will not be forthcoming. Ask others to respect your position. If they don't , it is on them and not your responsibility. Everyone has moments when they regret letting the cat out of the bag , but now that it's out , there is a certain freedom to it. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 123.193.70.75 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Taurus/M.1561168889.A.16F.html
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