推 gipo776: 謝謝 07/28 08:17
推 monsterwai: 謝謝 07/28 10:34
我們都知道有些人在情感上過於依賴。不論他們是朋友或家人，這些人有的直接將你的能
量吸走的傾向。但要記住一件事，阿牛，或許他們不喜歡這麼做，這些人的需求可能來自
於他們缺乏對自己的自信，還有他們的自卑感。與其只是容忍這些碰巧出現在你生活中的
人，不如努力培養他們的自尊心。這是種對關係的投資，對你來說可能也是非常有幫助的
。
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We all know someone who is emotionally needy. Whether they are friends or fami
ly members, they tend to have a knack for sucking the energy right out of you.
But keep in mind, Taurus, that they may not like being that way, and their ne
ediness probably comes from a lack of confidence in who and what they are, and
a feeling of inferiority. Instead of just tolerating someone like this who ha
ppens to be in your life, work on building them up and boosting their self-est
eem. It's an investment in a relationship that could be very instrumental to y
ou, too.
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emotionally needy 在感情上過於依賴
tend to 有…傾向、易於、導致
knack 訣竅、技巧
inferiority 自卑、劣勢、低等、
tolerate 忍受、容許、寬恕
instrumental 有幫助的、樂器
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