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最近可能有人對你不好,阿牛。與其用防禦性的膝跳反應來應對,仔細想想,你需要分析 他們為什麼會有這樣的行為。問問自己這是否並不常見,以及為什麼他們會出現這樣的狀 況。如果你在分析中加入同情心,就可能會發現你被對待的方式來自於恐懼或壓力。它可 能沒有反映出那個人對你的真實感受。無論如何,都要以善意回應。 —— Someone may have treated you badly recently, Taurus. But rather than a knee-je rk reaction that is mostly defensive, if you think about it, you need to analy ze why they behaved in such a way. Ask yourself if this is uncommon, and what reasons might have caused the behavior. If you add compassion to your analysis , you may just find that the way you were treated came from a place of fear or stress. It may not have reflected how that person truly feels about you. Be k ind in return, no matter what. —— -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 116.241.177.92 (臺灣) ※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Taurus/M.1666027164.A.726.html
ozlg: 好吧 只好加油了 謝謝《10/18 01:21
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※ 編輯: qpeter2243 (42.76.76.140 臺灣), 10/18/2022 16:00:55
monsterwai: 謝謝 10/18 20:54
omnis: 善意也該是向著自己的。謝謝翻譯。 10/18 22:33